All you have to do is to learn from you.

Rule one: from the outside to the inside, from others to see themselves. Through others, you can know the true self.

The fact that you see yourself in other people is your own.

Our opinion of others is mainly determined by what they make us see ourselves, not how we see them.

All of your relationships are a mirror, through which you can know the true self.

You are in the process of discovering each other, you also know that you are to find yourself. To understand his feelings, thoughts, and you know yourself, you are a mirror of each other.
If you think your partner loses enthusiasm for you, it may be because you're losing enthusiasm for him (her), like a marriage expert says, "&ldquo", if our marriage gets boring, maybe because I feel bored, or worse, I'm bored.
The place where people are the most annoying you.

Rule two: what kind of person you are, what you think people are. Part of the part that you can't stand is not part of yourself.
A man who is not good at character will be suspicious of another's character; a man who is not loyal to others, or who is suspicious of someone else's loyalty to him; one who is dishonest and not serious, he will put all his actions in “ he wants to be &rdquo, because he is such a person. A woman who is not a part of the other woman, naturally, will be suspicious of her own. Old things that are often unpleasant. Like to pick fault with people, in fact, is the most trouble; like gossiping, in fact, he is the most dubious.
If you love to lose your temper, you will think that people often make you angry, everything can become your reason for anger. It is not to say that everything is wrong, but that you are projecting, and you are projecting that which is hidden within you. You will condemn every person and every one thing, because you have too much anger, so even a little thing also can ignite anger.
Similarly, what others say to you, it also reflects who they are and their inner world. They are very likely to blame you because they are dissatisfied with themselves, and even they themselves are the &ldquo they criticize; the kind of person who ”.
When your heart is good, you will stop criticizing others and a rebound in criticism.
If you throw a stone at a long, apple tree, it will just be an apple, no matter who you are. A truly good man, no matter what you do to him, what he appears to be just plain and good, for he is the one who is.